There are many things that are important in life, and one of them is picking the right friends to keep close to you.

“Who you surround yourself is who you become”

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You might think: why? having a lot of friends is so cool! Everyone loves me!

The question is, are all quality friends? Are they going to be there in your lowest? Are they there to hear your dreams and passions? Do they give true advice? Are they just saying things because they are jealous of you? Are they fake to people that they talk bad about? Can you talk about anything with them knowing that they love that too? Are they there for every part of the ride, not only the good parts? Do they want what’s best for you? Does the conversation you have with them bring you good things to your life?

Having a lot of friends is fun and cool because you get to do many things always. Although you have to know that there are friends to party, friends to have small talk, friends to shop, and friends that are real. Pick your friends right and tell your private things to them, be careful. This is because you don’t want someone else’s bad energies to pass to your dreams.

A friendship can be so beautiful. Meaning how they love you so deeply and you love them and love doing life with them. Knowing that you can call them any second and they will be there for you with true honest advice. No sugar coating but the truth that will help you. A person in which you can day dream and create amazing things with. A person you can cry and be there just to listen to you. A person you can laugh and pee your pants. A person you know that they won’t go around talking shit about you with random people. A person that loves to see you happy. A person that loves to see you grow.

Many things go into friendships, and you should pick wisely and save your energy babe.

Keep this in mind. It took me a while to realize this.

Xoxo,

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