Being spoiled doesn’t mean getting a tennis bracelet everytime.

Sometimes men and women may be like “I haven’t taken you on a date because I don’t have money” ”Im on a budget” ”I can’t afford to take you out to dinner” BLAH BLAH BLAH. Babe im sorry to tell you this but you don’t need a lot of money to take your girlfriend or boyfriend on date. A date is a time you take off to get together and catch up. A moment to remind eachother how valuable each of you are and to show you appreciate them. Having ”no money” or ”no time” is the worst excuse for not going on dates. So, whenever your partner says that tell them that is the worst excuse you have ever heard LOL.

A date can simply be having a wine glass at your place, going to the beach, cooking together, getting dessert, going to a museum, etc. The most important part of it is you listening to what your partner has to say and actually be present in the conversation.

Take this as a sign to take your partner on dates often because it is so important for your relationship. This is a calling and I swear it is good for both of you to catch up and talk about life. Priceless.

No excuses here babe.

You can consider anything a date when both of you have your attention on eachother and are actually listening.

Here are a few ideas for those that can’t go on dates because they are on a “budget”

P.S: You don’t need 100 dollars to go on a date lol

1. Go on a walk to watch the sunset or sunrise and bring a snack to find a place to sit and chat
2. Go to the beach for breakfast,lunch,dinner and tan with some bubbly or sparkling water
3. Go get truffle french fries somewhere and then go back home and cook a nice dinner
4. Get a bunch of mcdonalds fries and put them on a bowl with truffle oil and have some wine
5. Make chocolate covered strawberries and watch your favorite movie
6. Go to target to get a couple card game and each of you pick your favorite snack
7. Go to a museum and talk about it
8. Get dressed up and go to a bar to have a drink
9. Go to a yoga class together and sweat everything off
10. Go see puppies and dream about the one you want with him/her
11. Go to the mall and buy a small thing for eachother
12. Go do a picnic and stay till the sunset
13. Have a pool day with a good playlist
14. Create a vision board and plan your future
15. Go dance with your partner and have so much fun
16. Go to a vineyard and learn about wines
17. Go to a cooking class together
18. Go to the groceries and make a good dinner/lunch
19. Make a whole brunch together at home
20. Go for a bike ride and then jump in the ocean
21. Go stargazing
22. Create your own drinks at home and pretend to be a bar tender
23. Re create your first date
24. Visit new food places
25. Go on a food tour with different places for different courses
26. Power point night with eachother
27. Go to the movies to watch a funny movie
28. Play a drinking game together
29. Go do a tea time
30. Get a massage together

And the list could go on. Remember babe: If they wanted to they would.

Mar

Xoxo,

Mar